“parents put a lot of pressure on their children to succeed. Can putting pressure on children be justified? Are there any alternatives? “

Parents these days tend to stress their children constantly to make sure that they grow up to be successful. In my opinion, putting children under these stressful situations only brings more harm than good. Parents should always try different approach methods if the current

way

isn_t working.

Firstly

, children under constant

pressure

might

breakdown

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break down

and do not reach their full potential. I believe

this

will become evident when the children start making mistakes on

simplest

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the simplest

of problems in daily task due to the

pressure

. Failing to cope with

task

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the task

and external

pressure

from parents might put the

child

in depression.

This

way

its

it is
it_s

only going to be harder for the

child

to absorb and learn new skills.

For example

, when the parents have high expectation of its

child

to score high marks for

certain subject

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certain subjects

,

this

pressure

build up will overwhelm the

child

and he or she may start to

overthink

all things
everything

of

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about

the situation and may not perform well.

Therefore

, all these added pressures will hinder the

child

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child_s

progression.

Furthermore

, parents should understand that, there isn_t only one

way

in helping the children succeed in life. The early on the parents realize

this

, the better it is for the

child

. They should take a step back and rethink their actions.

For example

, when the

child

doesn_t perform well in its studies, they shouldn_t scrutinize it,

instead

they should look at the areas that the

child

is weak in and work together with him to improve it.

This

way

, he will get the confidence that as

long he learns

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long as he learns

from his mistake it alright and

wont

will not
won_t
went

feel heat of the

pressure

. One thing parent should keep in their mind that not everybody handles

pressure

the same

way

.
In conclusion, constant

pressure

on children by the parent will only provide more

hinderance

the power to withstand hardship or stress
endurance

in children progression and development.

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